Please give me input on my problem. I took good care of my mother when she
was well and sick. When she passed it seemed my son pulled away from me. I
am living in her house now, but am trying to redecorate and put my own
energy in it. I really don’t understand what’s going on. Could it be that
his childhood memories are in this house? I just miss him and what we had.
Death is something that men handle so differently from women for one, and
not sure how old your son is, but men tend to close up, and to not cry like
women do, so even though you both need to grieve the loss of someone, his
grandmother, your mom, the grieving process will be different and not
necessarily done with each other, men tend to talk to other men, not to
and you both have to go on, and both take your own time. You can put up new
decorations and keep some old ones, that’s up to you, whatever feels right,
but your own relationship with your son will take time to move to its new
place, missing someone you both loved.
Another wonderful message. Thank you! this really helps
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